Judith from Benin Reublic

I am a 30 year old single lady and I desire to settle down but I have a purity stand, and I have decided not to engage in pre-marital sex until marriage but most of the men I meet don’t have a solid relationship with God, or they don’t think they can cope with a relationship without sex. I have lost at least 5 suitors for these reasons! Please I really need your advise.

EVB

I congratulate you for being able to stand on your grounds, God would honour you!

It is very important you keep your principles – In marriage, it’s an asset to keep your promises particularly if it is a major faith or standard issue for you. If you compromise it – you will struggle.

You need only one man – keep praying . Keep focused. Keep searching – there are men out there who share your values and believe in purity relationships. Though few but they are there, and God will send you yours! The key is – beyond this fundamental belief, you have to be flexible on any other issue that is not fundamental.

God bless you..