Esther from Imo State, Nigeria.

Dear EVB, I desire to get married, and I recently met a good, decent man, but I’m scared of telling him about my past lifestyle because I am afraid he would leave me if he knows all the details of my past. Please what do I do?

EVB

There is no fear in love – Perfect love casts our fear. If you are now truly and genuinely born again and you currently live a life of righteousness, anyone that cannot love you without judging your past does not deserve you! The main issues are not him – but with you .

Where you are now with God and how you are living your life NOW  is what matters – not then? If your NOW is up to par and he wants you genuinely – your past history will not be a big deal.